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The Challenges of Divorce in Today's Economy

7th Annual Conference of the
Association of Divorce Financial Planners

Radisson Hotel
One Radisson Plaza
New Rochelle, NY 10801

September 11 - 12, 2009

 

Co-Sponsors:

 

Collaborative Divorce Association of the Capital District

 

Collaborative Divorce Lawyers Association (Hartford)

 

Collaborative Divorce Team of Connecticut

 

Connecticut Council on Divorce Mediation and Collaborative Practice

 

Divorce Solutions of Connecticut

 

Family and Divorce Mediation Council of Greater New York

 

Mid-Jersey Collaborative Law Alliance

 

Nassau Academy of Law

 

New Jersey Collaborative Divorce Alliance

 

New Jersey Collaborative Law Group

 

New York Association of Collaborative Professionals

 

New York State Council on Divorce Mediation

 

New York State Dispute Resolution Association

 

North Jersey Collaborative Law Group

Rockland Collaborative Law Network

Exhibitors:

Bank of New York Mellon

Cambridge Alliance

Divorcenet

Family Law Software

Maknet Corporation

MatLaw Systems

Metrocities/Prospect Mortgage

New York State Council on Divorce Mediation

Practice Marketing Advisors™ with CoGrow

Agenda

Friday, September 11, 2009

Chapter Update and Development – Amy L. Whitlatch, CFP®, CDFA™ and Susan A. Moussi, CPA, CFP®, CDFA™

Divorce in Tough Economic Times – Lili A. Vasileff, CFP®, CDFA™

Presentation of 2009 ADFP Annual Pioneering Award to Pauline Tesler, JD and Peggy Thompson, PhD

Keynote Address:  Interdisciplinary Collaborative Divorce:  Harnessing the Power of the Team – Pauline Tesler, JD and Peggy Thompson, PhD

Advanced Collaborative Workshop: Communication Skills for Collaborative Financial Professionals – Peggy Thompson, PhD

The Dynamics of a Financial Planning Engagement – Vern Hayden, CFP®

Breakout Sessions:

1.      Practice and Professional Standards I: Establish Engagement Standards and Process Protocols *** - Dan Caine, MBA, JD, Elizabeth Cox, MIA, CFP®, CDFA™, Lisa C. Gresham, CDFA™, Barbara A. Stark, JD

2.      Determining Appropriate Amounts and Durations of Alimony/Spousal Maintenance in Divorce – Carl M. Palatnik, PhD, CFP®, CDFA™, AAMS

3.      How Divorce Financial Planners Can Bring Added Value to Your Practice – Amy L. Whitlatch, CFP®, CDFA™

4.      Practice and Professional Standards II: Standards, Protocols, Code of Ethics, Accreditation & Leadership *** - Barbara A. Stark, JD and Lili A. Vasileff, CFP®, CDFA™

5.      Common Financial Mistakes Made During the Divorce Process – Carl M. Palatnik, PhD, CFP®, CDFA™, AAMS

6.      Financial Considerations in Settling the Marital Residence – Susan A. Moussi, CPA, CFP®, CDFA™

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Saturday, September 12, 2009

Life After the Mortgage Meltdown – Frank Dippold, Metrocities Mortgage and David A. Nigrelli, Esq.

Special Issues Relating to Divorce in Today's Economy – Leonard Florescue, JD, Blank Rome, Kenneth Neumann, PhD, Center for Mediation and Training and Lili A. Vasileff, CFP®, CDFA™

Breakout Sessions:

1.      Team Mediation – Kenneth Neumann, PhD, Center for Mediation and Training

2.      What You Need to Know About Retirement Plans - Valuations vs. QDROs – Robert Guarnera, MAAA

3.      Opportunities and Pitfalls Associated with Stock Options, Restricted Stock and Retirement Benefits - Linda Ursin, JD & Maria McKeon, JD

4.      How to Make Straw Into Gold: Creative Ways of Arriving at Workable Outcomes When There Isn't Enough Money to Go Around – William Donaldson, CFP®, EA, CDFA™, Stacy Francis, CFP®, CDFA™, Lee Slater, CFP®, CDFA™

5.      Health Insurance, COBRA and Proposed Healthcare Reforms: What You Need to Know – Maura Carley, MPH, CIC

6.      Unwinding and Otherwise Dealing with Pre-Existing Estate Planning Vehicles in Divorce: Is That Irrevocable Trust Really Irrevocable? – Adam J. Gottlieb, Esq., Ruskin Moscou Faltischek

7.      Tax Issues in Divorce: What You Don't Know Can Hurt Your Clients! – William Donaldson, CFP®, EA, CDFA™

8.      Development of Financial Information: The Lawyer's Perspective – Barbara A. Stark, JD

9.      Bankruptcy Strategies for Divorce Proceedings – Wayne Greenwald, JD


Spreading Our Wings

6th Annual Conference of the
Association of Divorce Financial Planners

AXA/Microsoft Building
1290 Avenue of the Americas (52nd Street)
New York, NY 11019

September 11 - 12, 2008

Agenda

Thursday, September 11, 2008
Pre-Conference Institute: Financial and Tax Matters in Divorce – Practical Strategies

4.0 CEU, CLE, CPE (applied for)

Dan Caine, Esq., President, Family Law Software

These workshops will, through sample case studies and illustrative examples, provide practitioners with practical tools for identifying, analyzing, clarifying and resolving critical financial and tax issues in divorce, helping them and the attorneys or mediators and the divorcing parties they represent make smart, practical and informed decisions.

2:00 – 5:30 pm.
Workshop I: Strategies and Tools for Handling Fundamental Financial and Tax Matters in Divorce

This workshop addresses such topics as financial and tax projections; combining income, budgeting, real estate, child support, taxes, and alimony to achieve an overall result that recognizes the financial resources and responsibilities of both parties; tools and techniques that enable the parties to reach agreement with respect to division of property; and practical techniques for efficiently reaching an outcome that is fair, workable and acceptable to both parties.

Workshop II: Advanced Topics

This workshop, a continuation of Workshop I, addresses topics such as determining which filing status is best, whether the parties should file jointly or separately, whether they should divorce this year or next, who should claim the exemptions; complex real estate issues associated with the marital residence and investment properties, including refinancing, and tools and techniques that enable the parties to reach agreement regarding the division of property, including separate property and discretionary expenses.

There will be a 10 minute break between Workshops I and II.

5:30
Wine and Cheese Reception

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Friday, September 12, 2008
6th Annual Conference: Spreading Our Wings

6.0 CEU, CLE, CPE (applied for)

8:00 – 8:30 a.m.
Registration, Continental Breakfast, Sponsor Tables, Networking

8:30 – 9:00
Welcome and Opening Remarks.
Lili A. Vasileff, CFP®, CDFA™, President, ADFP

9:00 – 10:15
Financial Issues Surrounding Children
Eric J. Broder, Esq., Broder and Orland, LLC; Saundra M. Gumerove, Esq.; Diane S. Safran, MA, ATR-BC, LMFT

10:15 – 10:30
Morning Break – Sponsor Tables, Networking

10:30 – 11:30
Marketing to the Public
Patricia M. Goodman, CFP®, CDFA™

How to market the value of divorce analysis to the individual who is going through a divorce; how to create and manage a public image; how to create and use branded reports in the courts; how the attorney-planner relationship can work in a way that brings value both to attorneys and clients.

11:30 – 12:45 p.m.
Tax Planning and Tax Pitfalls in Divorce: Tax Mistakes Often Encountered, Tax Benefits Often Overlooked
Gaetano "Guy" Ferro, Esq., Partner, Marvin, Ferro, Barndollar, and Roberts, L.L.C., Immediate Past President, American Association of Matrimonial Lawyers (AAML)

How to help your clients avoid potential divorce tax disasters including, among many others, ensuring that often obscure assignment of income problems are recognized and that alimony intended to be tax deductible really is. How to take advantage of tax saving devices including, to mention a few, how to make child support, attorney’s fees and financial planner’s fees tax deductible and how to take advantage of a more favorable tax filing status.

12:45 – 1:45
Lunch and Presentation of 2008 ADFP Annual Pioneering Award to
Carol Ann Wilson, CFP®
, followed by Keynote Address

1:45 – 2:45
Breakout Sessions 1

2:45 – 3:00
Afternoon Break – Sponsor Tables, Networking

3:00 - 4:00
Breakout Sessions 2

4:00 - 5:00
Breakout Sessions 3

5:00 – 5:15
Closing Remarks

Breakout Sessions

Your Choice – See Registration Form:

Advisors Can Help Themselves by Helping the Media
Claudio Pannunzio, Partner, Blue Chip Public Relations, Inc.

Tips and guidelines on zero-cost PR initiatives that advisors can implement on their own and address issues such as recognizing that beyond getting an interview, preparing for it is the most imperative task; getting familiar with publication and understanding editors’ beat; using the media as a conduit between advisors and their target audiences; how to build media relationships and expert source reputation; how to effectively pitch story ideas to the media; how to prepare for the spotlight and articulate the nature and content of information; handling media inquiries; leveraging the New Media.

Bankruptcy and Divorce
Wayne Greenwald, Esq.

2005 Bankruptcy Law amendments’ effects on domestic support obligations. The Bankruptcy Abuse and Consumer Protection Act of 2005 (BACPA) may be renowned for its impact on consumer credit card debt, but it provides many significant changes for the treatment and administration of domestic support obligations.

Dealing with Difficult Clients
Kenneth Neumann, Ph.D., Co-Founder and Director of Training, Center for Mediation & Training

Divorcing clients are by definition going through a difficult time. However there are some clients who we experience as being difficult beyond that. This workshop will teach you how to identify which clients you experience as difficult and to develop techniques to work more effectively with these clients

The Concept of Income in Divorce
David Aronson, Esq., Partner, Sheresky, Aronson, Mayefsky & Sloan, LLP

This session covers personal vs. enterprise goodwill and the impact of a requested maintenance award. Maintenance and child support interactions. Perquisites. Timing of perquisite awards and the characterization of awards as “income” vs. “distributable assets.” Does the characterization of an award as “income” or an “asset” change if granted before marriage (but earned and vested after the date of marriage), at the beginning of the marriage or at the date of separation or complaint make a difference? Impact of property payments paid over time and their effects on support and maintenance. College payments and their effects on support and maintenance. Payments beyond child support; extracurricular activities, private school, medical, dental, etc. and their effects on other payments.

The Effects of Divorce on Insurance Coverages and Insurance Policy Ownership
Beth M. Gardner, CPCU, AAI, Chief Operating Officer, and Thomas J. Crowley, CPCU, CIC, CRM, Maran Corporate Risk Associates

This presentation will discuss what your clients should do to ensure they are covered during and after divorce. Learn who has the right to the insurance policy; how to advise your clients on whether they should be listed under the existing homeowners policy after; at what point they will no longer be covered for liability under the existing or pre-existing insurance policy; how to manage COBRA when they were previously insured under their spouse and when to change the beneficiaries on a life insurance policy.

Social Security Issues in Divorce
Debbie Figueroa, Public Affairs Specialist, U.S. Social Security Administration

Retirement Factors: eligibility. divorced spousal benefits, termination events, entitlement factors, proofs required, dependents.. Disability Factors: who is eligible, terminating events, divorce is not an issue. Survivors Benefits: eligibility, terminating events, proofs required. SSI Eligibility Factors: terminating events.

Divorce and the Special Needs Child
Saundra M. Gumerove, Esq.

Children with special needs present difficult issues during a divorce. Learn how to assist your client in negotiating child support, medical coverage, services and planning for the child’s future needs. The session will cover a discussion of the use of special needs trusts and a parent’s obligation of support, determining which parent should cover the disabled child’s medical coverage and more.

Strategies for Testifying in Court
Carol Ann Wilson, CFP®

If you have to testify in court as an Expert Witness, you can either help win the case, or you can destroy your client’s case! Learn how to be qualified as an Expert Witness. Learn the basic differences between Direct and Cross examination. Learn how to answer questions asked of you on the stand.

A Guide to IRC §1031 Tax Deferred Exchanges
Joseph A. Insalaco, CFP®, 1031 Investments Services, Inc.

This seminar is designed to teach both inexperienced and experienced practitioners how to successfully navigate §1031. The 1031 Exchange concept could be a valuable strategy for any investor or advisor when considering the disposition of real estate that was either held as part of a trade or business or for investment purposes. Under IRC §1031, a taxpayer can defer the capital gain taxes and the depreciation recapture taxes that would be due upon the sale of a property as long as they follow the guidelines of the code section and reinvest the proceeds into a qualified replacement property(s) within the imposed deadlines. Attendees will learn how to best structure real estate deals to maximize §1031’s benefits and to avoid its pitfalls. Attendees will also discover the wide range of replacement property options available in today’s market. Each attorney and CPA in attendance will be provided with additional continuing education credits through self study courses. Attorneys will receive 2.5 elective credits, and CPAs will receive 2 elective credits.


September 28, 2007

5th Annual ADFP Conference
The Changing Landscape of Divorce

Location: Radisson Hotel, New Rochelle, NY

Agenda:

8:00-8:30 a.m. Registration, Continental Breakfast, Networking, Sponsor Tables
8:30-9:20 a.m. The Changing Landscape of Divorce – Lili A. Vasileff, CFP®, CDFA™, ADFP President
9:20-10:35 a.m. Presentation of First Annual Pioneering Award to the Honorable F. Herbert Gruendel, appellate court judge and former chief administrative judge for the family division of the Superior Court in the state of Connecticut
9:20-10:35 a.m. The Honorable F. Herbert Gruendel of Connecticut – Keynote Address
10:35-10:50 a.m. Morning Break, Networking, Sponsor Tables
10:50-12:30 p.m.

Interdisciplinary Approaches to Divorce – Kenneth Neumann, Ph.D., Center for Family & Divorce Mediation (mediation); Harold Brienes, Esq., (collaborative divorce); Amy Greenberg, Esq., Greenberg & Prince, LLC (litigation); Bill Donaldson, CFP®, EA, CDFA™, The Vista Companies (divorce financial planning)

A first hands on commentary about how different legal professionals find value in divorce financial planning services; how they use our services and integrate them in their work; when they call upon us; and how in their eyes, we are able to augment the divorce process for achieving equitable and practical outcomes for the client. This is a peek inside how legal professionals work with us and we can utilize this information to market ourselves across interdisciplinary professions.

12:30-1:30 p.m. Lunch
1:30-2:45 p.m. Cutting Edge Financial Issues and Trends in Divorce – Jacquelyn Conlon, Esq., Fitzmaurice & Siegel, Family Law Committee, Fairfield County Bar Association (CT); TBA (NY)
2:45-3:00 p.m. Afternoon Break, Networking, Sponsor Tables
Financial Discovery Track
3:00-4:15 p.m.

Lifestyle Analysis – Paul Pershes, CPA/ABV, CVA, Managing Director, RosenfarbWinters, LLC

Why perform a lifestyle analysis? Does the lifestyle “make sense?” Using lifestyle analysis to help determine support needs. Learn what is needed to prepare a lifestyle analysis, its format and how to work with the client, attorney or other divorce professionals, Lifestyle Analysis vs. Statement of Net Worth.

4:15-5:30 p.m.

Finding Hidden Treasures in Tax Returns – Mark Gottlieb, CPA/ABV, CVA, DABFA

The ability to read and understand business and personal income tax returns may be one of the most important tasks in evaluating the finances in a divorce proceeding. This workshop will teach participants what tax returns say and what they don't readily reveal. Learn what to look for to determine what a business owner really earns and how to identify personal and discretionary expenses that may be paid from a business.

Practice Management Track
3:00-4:15 p.m.

Get More Referrals with a Targeted Marketing Strategy – Vikram Rajan, Co-founder of CoGrow Systems, Inc. and MAESTRO Business Academy

Divorce financial planners are in a unique position in the marketplace. You can use your expertise to attract referrals from a variety of sources. Because there are so many opportunities, you may not know where to start, where to focus or the most effective marketing strategies. Vik Rajan will present a highly interactive seminar focusing on practical marketing insights to help you grow your practice the very next day!

  1. How to modify your marketing according to your target market (e.g. spouses vs. lawyers)
  2. Cooperative marketing with other financial professionals: Do's & Don't's
  3. Managing your time & money for each of the 6 Prospecting Channels
  4. Techniques to Fill Seminar Seats & Grow Website Traffic
  5. Ceating buzz with market trends and technologies (e.g. newsletters, blogs, podcasts)
  6. Growing your credibility & trust with your expertise, values, and people skills
  7. How to stay accountable to your goals & 12-month marketing calendar
4:15-5:30 p.m. How to Develop a Successful Divorce Financial Planning Practice – Timothy McNamara, CFP®, CDFA™
5:30-5:40 p.m. Closing remarks, Sign-out