Divorce and Money and Children at
2008 ADFP Annual Conference

 

July is Child-Centered Divorce Month
 
     July
marks the second annual recognition of National Child-Centered Divorce Month.  The brainchild of Rosalind Sedacca, CCT, this month is designed to bring attention to children's emotional needs when parents separate or divorce.  According to Sedacca, "We can never overemphasize how dramatically parental decisions about divorce can affect their children - for years - and often for a lifetime."
 
Divorce is Largely about Money and Children
 
     Keeping this in mind, attendees at the 2008 6th annual conference of the Association of Divorce Financial Planners will have numerous opportunities to learn and interact with other divorce professionals about "money and children." 
 
To be held in New York City, September 11th and 12th, several child-centered plenary and breakout presentations have been incorporated into the program, which focuses on legal, financial and emotional issues in divorce.  These include:
 
1.  A panel focusing on Divorce Issues Surrounding Children and consisting of:
 
Eric Broder, a family law attorney who also serves as a Special Master in the Family Division of the Stamford and Bridgeport, Connecticut Superior Courts,
 
Diane Safran, a clinical marriage and family therapist and court appointed expert witness using art therapy to determine signs of abuse in children, and
 
Saundra Gumerove, an attorney whose practice is focused on special needs children.
 
2.  A separate breakout session led by attorney Gumerove focusing on financial issues associated with Special Needs Children and Divorce, a subject often neglected in the statutes.
 
3.  A breakout session on Dealing with Difficult Clients in Divorce led by Kenneth Neumann, Co-Founder and Director of Training, Center for Mediation & Training.
 
According to Neumann, "In keeping with 'Child-Centered Divorce Month,' it is important to consider using divorce professionals whose commitment is to work with the whole family, not just advocate for an individual client.  Further, the focus on the children's well-being is best protected when parents choose to work with a mediator/divorce financial specialist team, thus helping create the best financial outcome for the whole family, including maximizing the amount of money that will be available for the children's expenses."
 
 
2008 ADFP Annual Conference - A Robust Program

 

     Spreading Our Wings, the 6th Annual Conference of the Association of Divorce Financial Planners, will be held September 11 - 12 in the AXA/Microsoft building, 1290 Avenue of the Americas, New York City.  The program has a large roster of preeminent speakers and will cover a wide range of financial, legal and emotional issues in divorce.  It promises to be our best ever.
 
Past attendees have included attorneys, mediators, financial planners, mental health professionals, collaborative law professionals, accountants and a variety of other divorce professionals from around the United States.  As in the past, there will be ample amounts of CEU, CLE and CPE and ample opportunities to interact with friends and interdisciplinary colleagues.
 
Further details about the conference and registration information can be found at
www.DivorceandFinance.org and adfp@optonline.net.  

 

Special Notice to New York Divorce Professionals: 

 

     For the past few years, MatLaw Systems has provided support to the ADFP in the form of $25 discounts to ADFP members and conference attendees to Ultimate Update, its annual update on New York Matrimonial Law.  This is the best and most popular program of its kind in New York State.  The ADFP, an approved CFP Board sponsor, has also annually applied for and been granted 7 CEU credits for CFP®'s attending their Ultimate Update program  If you would like to learn more about this year's program or subscribe to MatAlert, their free weekly newsletter summarizing recent case law, Click here.

 

Where to Find the Best Pastrami Sandwich - Another Tip for Those Planning to Extend Their Stay in New York
 
Some say the Carnegie Deli is the best delicatessen in New York City - and that's saying a lot.  Lucky for you, the Carnegie Deli is also located near the conference site as well as the New York Theatre District: 854 7th Avenue (55th Street).  Here are a couple of additional tips.  Bring someone with you to share your sandwich!  Also, their (real New York) cheesecake, which also should be shared, is said to be "the standard by which all others should be judged (Zagat)."  The wait staff can be entertaining and consists largely of underemployed actors and entertainers and people who have been there close to a million years.  The place is dumpy, but that's part of its charm.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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